Names have been changed to protect the innocent.
There is a guy that i have gone on a couple of dates with ( we shall say his name is Jeff). I have seen jeff around but i have never gotten to really know him, and two weeks I get a text from a very close friend ( you could almost say we are sisters) asking if i new who Jeff is and I told her I did, but I did not know much about him. that was basically the end of the texting between the two of us. Then Last week I get another Text from Her asking if I would go on a Date with Jeff and I said yes. so friday night we went to dinner and a movie, It was alot of Fun and I really got to know him better.
Now as this was happening I had tickets to a hockey this coming friday Night, and i could not figure who i should take to the game.
Problem : There is another Guy in my ward that I have like for about 5 months ( I will call him Scott) Now scott is abit shy when it comes to girls ( I do not know Why) and its really hard to read him. I dont know if he likes me even though we play pool, go to dinner, game night and so on.....
Scott's best friend happens to be a very good Friend of mine as well ( her name will be Scout) and she know that I like scott.
So i have these tickets and I get a text Monday night from Jeff and I still had not ask anyone to come with me so I asked him and he said yes. Which I was really excited about because he is a really great guy. Now I have four tickets to the hockey game but because my sister was going to be out of town Invited Scout to get a date and come with Jeff and I. Scout said yes as well.
About a day ago Scout Text me asking what time and where to meet but also why I did not ask Scott to come with me instead of Jeff. I told her that I liked both of them, the truth is that Im a chicken and could not ask him.
Then today I have been thinking about the conversation and even though Im not dating Scott, I feel that Im cheating on him with Jeff.
Im I crazy or should I feel that way.
4 comments:
You've only been on one date? You aren't cheating. Unless he asks you to be exclusive i.e. bf/gf then its not cheating.
P.S. Harvey thinks going out with either of those other boys is cheating on him (Harvey) :P
Harvey will always be one of my number one men in my life.
If you really like Scotty-poo, ask him out. It's not fair to Jeff-a-rooney if you're not really interested. If you like them both, then date them both. You're young, not committed, and living life.
NO REGRETS!!
let them duke it out over you. you just worry about having fun and doing what you want. when Scott grows a pair enough to turn your friendship in a new direction, then worry about it. Jeff has the right to date around, too. nobody is in a contract, here. the heart is a sacred place, so treat it as such, but remember that all's fair in love and war. when it comes to a climax of drama, feign innocence.
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